Change The Way You Speak About People

So many angry people in this country, and the biggest question that comes to my mind is WHY?

Who are you angry at and why do you hate people who try to Help?

I run into this problem because people don’t know about each other or the problems that they face. I understand their fears and the solution that I offer to you is trust Jesus Christ. Jesus Christ has been my answer, and like many people it took me a while to realize that he is the only answer. I still have days when I don’t run to him and then when I finally do I see that I should have been in his presence from the very beginning.

I am a counselor and mentor. I don’t control people I just listen and help them find the answers and ease the pain of loneliness and misunderstanding. I can’t change their heart, I can only give them a hug, the love of God and an ear to listen.  Sometimes we just cry together, or glare at each other and occasionally we laugh together. There are times of silence. Then there is a conversation. Eventually we begin to make progress toward a better relationship with Christ.Yet remember that we too have our days when things don’t always go as they should. Counselors, mentors, and pastors also need to spend time with the Savior and their mentor as well

My point is that you cannot judge a book by his cover and yes being distant can lead to misunderstanding. Not all people are criminals or hoodlums, and we can’t assume the worst about people.  Instead we need to pray for these people lift them up. Your words do matter. They can cut to the heart or they can begin healing the wounds.

Every bad thing you say about them becomes real the more you speak it. We need to change the way we speak over people start being more positive up lifting and pray for them. We need to speak more healing and uplifting with encouragement and love.

Isaiah 55:11 (AMP) 11 So shall My word be that goes forth out of My mouth: it shall not return to Me void [without producing any effect, useless], but it shall accomplish that which I please and purpose, and it shall prosper in the thing for which I sent it.

Our word should be positive because it will not come back void. You speak your choice, health and future by the very words you speak over yourself and others. So if you are speaking negative Words about you, that is the way your life will become NEGATIVE, so change the way you speak over things, and people and include yourself.

Romans 12:18-21 (AMP) 18 If possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19 Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave the way open for [God’s] wrath; for it is written, Vengeance is Mine, I will repay (requite), says the Lord. 20 But if your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals upon his head. 21 Do not let yourself be overcome by evil, but overcome (master) evil with good.

It does not matter if he is your friend or enemy pray for them and pray with the love of God. Just begin doing that for everyone in your community, family and church Family and even those in the Service of our country. You will see changes not only in them but in yourself as well.

Remember this, you have no control over the decisions that other’s make, you only control what you do and say, so you can change the way that you speak and think about the things of this world.

What would Jesus do?  Isaiah 55:11. And remember also  Isaiah 43:25-26 (NKJV) 25  “I, even I, am He who blots out your transgressions for My own sake; And I will not remember your sins. 26  Put Me in remembrance; Let us contend together; State your case, that you may be acquitted.

I need to stop and think about the things before I get to the point of speaking about them, or writing about them. That must always include praying about them and spending time with the Lord, and most important listening to Him.